Heal your love life in 69 days, really.

Whether you’re relationship is dying and you want to save it, or you need to jump ship, or create the relationship you never got to have…

This is for you…

Do any of these apply to you? 

• You've been heartbroken by one 'failed' relationship after another.

• You have your life together in general, but this 'relationship piece' never seems to fall into place.

• There's a gap (or a canyon) between your ideals of romance and intimacy and your actual relationships.

• You long for companionship, but wonder if it is worth the price you pay.

• You've settled for a love life that does not fulfill you because you can't imagine what else is out there.

• Certain intimate situations trigger falling out of your best self and regressing into familiar patterns.

• You have trouble with boundaries; balancing space and closeness.

• You never truly commit; they never truly commit.

• You keep attract people that fit perfectly into certain patterns.

• The voices in your head are not making it any easier.

Since 2011 I've been guiding people like you out of their most crushing patterns and into the best love of their lives.

Are you ready to break free and thrive in a relationship?

You’re in the right place!

I am the sole practitioner of an original strategy that consistently produces such powerful results that even the most entrenched patterns don't stand a chance. While other practitioners vaguely hope, I guarantee results.

I spent the last 10 years working with individuals on their core relationship patterns.

Even if years of therapy or countless self help gurus or modalities or shamans or plant medicine ceremonies or workshops or whatever else have failed to make the impact you had hoped they would. 

Because I've walked a different path, in my training and in my life, I approach healing differently. I don't talk around issue for years or try to fit unique patterns into some generic system. I don't waste time with ineffective approaches. I see through wounds and scars to the true self, and I use radical strategies to uproot even the most entrenched stories from the body and mind.

Even after all hope seems lost, I still see the real you. 

“Shaman, magician, healer. I have never felt so much joy in the unraveling of self! He is undeniably among the amazing few chosen to heal.”-Tony Demartile, Founder, Solé Salon & Spa AVEDA, Emeryville, California

You already know what doesn't work.  

Learning new concepts; setting goals; making vows; analyzing patterns to death; telling and retelling the same stories again and again; creating vision boards of your ideal partner, or listing out their qualities; changing locations, clothes, jobs, partners, etc. 

If you want to change and leap to a more fulfilling life, you need a completely different approach. 

Most approaches, while well-intentioned, are mostly a waste of precious time and resources.To honor your precious time, (and my own), I created a system that gets you from where you are to where you want to be in the fewest meetings possible. 

When he walked into the house after work, he hardly recognized his wife. She was sitting at the breakfast table, and he walked by and had to do a double take. What? She asked, her eyes bright. What was it exactly? Had her posture changed? Was it her hair? He fell in love again.

He called me in tears. "I don't know what you did to her. I didn't believe it was possible. Can you do it to me?"

We’d begun our work a few months earlier. After years in an unfulfilling marriage, they had a child soon after, after years of being unable, and the relationship was free to blossom.

Stories like this are commonplace.

 I am committed to you consistently experiencing more and more intimacy and love at the level of depth that you deserve.

I want your eyes to water with gratitude when you think of all of the love in your life. 

But first, we need to uproot stories like these from your reality: 

• I was abused (emotionally or physically) so I am unable to fully trust anyone

• My heart was broken (or still is) so I am afraid to love again

• My parents did X or Y so I am destined to do the same

• If anyone truly knew me, they’d know that I’m un-loveable

• X said Y when I was just a child, and I believed them

• A parent was not affectionate so I cannot give or receive love

• I keep recreating the relationships my parents had

I know that you've been through a lot. 

While I honor your pain, I also honor your potential. I'm have complete faith in your ability to thrive in a fulfilling relationship. 

It's just a matter of finding and applying a strategy that actually works. And fortunately, fate guided you here, because this approach works.

Your most painful "issues" in relationships are life lessons rising to the surface. 

It takes presence and patience in these pivotal moments to really get the message, and heal the pattern. 

You need a fearless, trustworthy companion to lead you into and ultimately all the way through the emotions and the sensations connected to the pattern.

Most people move through life without changing much at all. They just find different ways to numb their discontent over the years. And of course, a life like that is intimately unfulfilling, and often ends badly.  

Changing love patterns isn't easy.

In fact, with the way most approach it, it's nearly impossible. This is why most people you and I know never escape theirs. I have a list of clients, though, who are not only free of theirs, they are operating at a whole other level. And I include myself in that category. 

Not only are you going to make dramatic progress, you're going to do it within a few weeks, (though it may take a little time for some of the changes to show up in your life). You'll walk out of our first meetings with fundamental worldview shifts, a deeper understanding of the way you've been carrying your pain, and practical strategies for letting go so you can breathe and love again. 

In case this sounds like hyperbole (and I understand if it does, because most practitioners are thrive on selling well intentioned though ultimately empty promises), I back up my promises with a simple guarantee.

If you don’t experience fundamental shifts, I’ll coach you until you do.

I'll support you in shifting your core patterns, not in your mind, but in your body... in your very cells, so that you open to experience intimacy that is: 

• enriching

• compassionate

• safe

• fulfilling

• inspiring

• sustainable

• passionate

• romantic

• growth-oriented

• built on trust

• fun

• based on trust rather than fear and suspicion

• built on real intimacy

If this brings up fear, welcome to the pattern rearing its head. I'll show you how to deal with that. 

My Story.

From fractured to whole. 

I'm Steven Budden. When a series of awakening experiences culminated in a broken neck, I was compelled to begin following the signposts to my destiny. As I trained to heal this bone, I realized, with surprise, that when I touched people during therapeutic trainings, their deepest memories often arose, or waves of emotion. Instead of turning away from that, I embraced it, and embarked on a series of informal apprenticeships with masters. What was even more surprising was how much life could change during a seemingly subtle physical adjustment.

When clients walked out of the room, they walked out changed, in profound and often startling ways. And not only in the area upon which we were working, but in every area of life. Before that, I'd never really experienced the reality of a truly holistic view of life. My ideas about the body and its relationship to the mind were limited. These limitations manifested as a limited life. As I work with clients, I demonstrate this worldview, and it opens up huge vistas of healing and potential. 

Soon after discovering radical somatic healing strategies that I could use on my bones, my heart was broken by an unfaithful partner. It was intense, and perfectly aligned. It inspired me to apply my somatic emotional release techniques to my emotional pain. So I set out to heal my deepest wounds, I became an alchemist of broken hearts and bones. 

Over the years, I've supported clients in recovering from just about every kind of pattern, and in doing so, I've lifted myself out of my own morass of depression, poverty, and heartbreak. I love humanity, and my passion is facilitating the most beautiful breakthroughs imaginable. 

I'm don't know more than you, and I don't claim to be superior in some way. What I do know how to do is to clear your distortions, so that you truly be who you are, and do what you came here to do. 

Thank you for taking the time to explore your great unfolding. I look forward to potentially collaborating. 

Love and Rapture,

Steven Budden